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Maura: Grandparents' deaths |
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Written by Maura (Maguire) Mallon
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Sunday, 01 May 2005 |
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My earliest memory is of waking up in the pram and
being given a bottle. I also remember
being carried downstairs each morning in my pyjamas to get a miniature cooked
breakfast with the family.
I recall having measles, with the lights out to keep
the room dark and a tilly lamp burning (the same tilly lamp I keep today). I was bundled in a quilt on the armchair and
constantly fussed over.

I remember going off to bed in the winter, with a hot
brick wrapped in an old blanket to warm the bed and a china dog clutched in my
arms (I still retain that dog too, now bearing the marks of my early
handling!).
One day, rummaging in the cupboard in the attic
bedroom, my hands touched something furry! I promptly went into hysterics. It proved to be a fox fur belonging to my aunt Margaret. The sight of it with its tail, paws and eyes
made me yell ever louder! My aunt Margaret taught me all the Irish songs and my
uncle Pat taught me letters and numbers. I had a little abacus and with it we would play numbers games.
At this stage of my life I cannot remember what my
parents looked like although I must have seen them every day. I call still call to mind however my
grandparents, aunts and uncles as they then looked. My grandmother died when I was just three and
a half years old in May 1940. My
grandfather followed her just six weeks later. I can still see my aunts crying and the host of people who came back and
forward to the house when the ‘wakes’ were held. Most of all I can see in my mind’s eye the
glass hearse with the black plumed horses.
My aunt Cassie took over the household when my
grandmother died. The question just did
not arise of me returning to my parents’ house.
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